She was a hard worker, trustworthy, and obviously well liked. Against her will, she became the wife of a man who did not put her first. She was not his priority. She did have his child, a son, but that wasn't enough to win him over. He sent her and his son away with nothing but enough supplies to make it through the day. She had little support because she was far from her family and friends. She had given up everything to go with him, maybe out of fear, maybe out of hope. Who knows? Now she was alone, husband less, rejected, and without any resources.
She abandoned her son for just a minute because she couldn't bear to see him suffer anymore. But God heard their cries. He answered them. He took care of her. He provided for her. He made her son the "father of a nation" (Gen. 21:18). The legacy of her faith is admired to this day...
She was the first single mother recorded in the bible. Her name is Hagar. She was maidservant to Sarai (later to be named Sarah), wife to Abraham, and mother to Ishmael which means "God Hears".
I don't believe Hagar ever intended to be at this place in her life. She was busy with her life until she was dragged into this drama and all because other people made some bad decisions. Now she was caring for her son without the help of anyone but God. She had to trust him to provide everything. I'm sure that many times she was afraid of what was to come of her future... but God said, "Do not be afraid." (Gen. 21:17)
So she listened. She obeyed God. He made her name great. An entire nation of Ishmael's descendants defend her to this day. God took care of her.... a single mom lost in a desert, crying, broken, and afraid. He restored her and her child. He is no respecter of persons so He will do the same for us. I am forever grateful for that.
Saturday, March 31, 2007
I found myself in her....
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Smile While You Work....
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Masterpiece
Picture this. You are walking through an art gallery full of priceless masterpieces. Every one is unique, and each one carries its own form of beauty. Each piece tells a different story. Some have been damaged by time while others seem untarnished.
As you walk through, you begin to critique each piece. You begin to marvel and wonder how something so beautifully and wonderfully made could carry such flaws. You stop by a particular piece and begin to examine it, voicing your opinion about how this work of art could or should have been created better. You hear as others voice their concerns about the art, and you begin to notice the imperfections they see as well. Their opinion becomes your opinion. You move onto the next piece, as the previous piece is no longer perfect or worthy of your time.
As you walk away, it is then that you realize that this piece of art you were so harshly criticizing was in fact your very own reflection in a mirror. The work of art was you; the Artist.... God.
Isaiah 64:8 "Yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are the work of your hand."
We are the workmanship of God. We truly are His masterpieces. It is each unique look or personality trait that makes us priceless. It makes us who we are - the person God created us to be. Who are we to judge God's work? Who are we to throw dirt on His craftsmanship? Yet, this is exactly what we do when we judge others and ourselves.
If we are going to walk through God's art gallery and notice the flaws in His sculptures, we need to put our suggestions in the suggestion box instead of criticizing each piece. In simpler terms.... we should pray to the Creator. He is the only one who can make the changes anyway. Only He knows how He intends for this piece to turn out. Besides, do you think He would have paid the highest price for all of us if we weren't worth it?
He calls me "Beloved"? WoW!!
While studying today I noticed a pattern that is obvious throughout scripture but largely overlooked. All names had an actual meaning. A father would name his child according to what was happening at the time of his birth, according to a prophecy, or according to God himself. Let's take a look:
Benjamin - "son of my right hand"
Isaiah - "the Lord says"
Obadiah - "servant of the Lord"
Malachi - "my messenger"
This got me thinking and surfing the web to find the true origin and meaning of my name. What would God say of me? With tears swelling up I read it....
AMY
Gender: Feminine
Usage: English
Pronounced: AY-mee
Derived from Old French aimée meaning "beloved".
I am His beloved. As a single mom this means the world to me. I long to have the security of a husband and the covering of a man but I know that I can wait because I am His beloved!
He will walk with me, swing with me, hold me close, and dry my tears. He will. He will.
Isa 54:5
For thy Maker [is] thine husband; the LORD of hosts [is] his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.
I received a breathtaking revelation today. I am happy!
So... what does your name mean?
Kids Are People Too....
I must admit that on some days I must constantly remind myself why I homeschool my children. I want them to always be as excited as I am about the new project we are doing. Or I would like for them to be content doing their assignments because learning is so important. Of course, this isn't always the case.
It seems that instilling a love for learning in my children has proven to be a task. They are taught so many wrong ways in our public schools today that it is hard to undo the mess. But, I have hope. I have a loving Father that I pray too and He guides me. He has shown me different ways to interact with and teach each child according to his personality, talents, gifts, and maturity level. It is a fascinating journey.
My oldest son (10) is very independent, goal-oriented, and pays much attention to detail. He is
fascinated by the military and science. His great-grandpa and his uncle are both highly decorated military men. He loved spending time with his papaw learning about Vietnam and Korea and he was thrilled to get letters from his uncle while he was in Iraq. They have been a great influence to him. He loves to watch war movies, new and old. He loves to watch CSI, which I might add I have to fast forward through alot of nonsense just to get to the lab portions. I have learned to teach him geared toward these things and he doesn't even know that he is learning! I made him set up a mission to obtain evidence of a plot to assassinate a political figure, all imagined of course. In planning this mission he had to use a map to plot coordinates (geography), learn about the culture of the country and it's people (history), determine miles, how much food and water needed according to how many days it would take etc, (math), and once he arrived at the pretend location we had fingerprints, hair follicles, and such that were planted for him to study and determine the culprit (his little brother!) That of course was the science of the study. Throughout we also incorporated vocabulary, spelling, lots of reading, and writing. We also took a trip to Ft. Casey which helped stir his imagination.
His younger brother (8) was a bit more of a challenge. His melancholy personality is the source of his creativeness. His love is of art. I prayed and prayed
about how to incorporate all of his subjects using art and then God showed me something. His grandmother is a gifted artist. She can draw, paint, and chalk some of the most beautiful pieces I have ever seen. I began to think of her and realized that she is also a very gifted writer. Then I thought, maybe, just maybe my son would have those combined gifts as well. So, I asked him to write and illustrate a story about my oldest son's mission! It was fabulous. He does have a gift for writing. It worked out so well! He is so descriptive in his writing and he definitely can see things from a unrestrained perspective. He was able to incoporate all of his lessons into one story and he enjoyed doing it. He still makes a fuss when he has to do regular lessons but he looks forward to his unit studies because that is where he shines!Now the little one (6) .... He loves facts, he has a memory like an elephant, and he loves to read. He takes an interest in the oddest things. He is fascinated with monkeys (don't ask). He loves rainbow butt monkeys in particular. Now, I feel it is important to note that during my research I have found that there is no such animal as a rainbow butt monkey. There is however a really unique band called the "Rainbow Butt Monkeys"! Therefore, we cannot do a study on them. So, once I broke the news to him about it we decided to make an alphabet book with different things that related to monkeys. A was for apes, B for bananas, C for chimpanzee, D for dizzy monkeys (hey, that's what he wanted!) So on each page he drew a picture and practiced writing his letters and words. We also used numbers on the pages by putting 4 bananas, 6 trees, 9 fleas picked out of the fur, etc. I also used this time to explain creation to him and how the world teaches evolution and it is against God. He can now debate creationism vs. evolution! It was definitely a good experience.
Now, I also use text books for the boys. They are more like living books than traditional text but I love having them for reference and to give me an idea of how to present different things to them. We have since also completed studies on pirates, Wolfgang Mozart Amadeus, personal hygiene, cowboys, dinosaurs, skateboarding, and many more. Gevan's next mission will be to the moon, Jacob's next story will be about something he loves.... animals, and Brennan will be making a book about..... brown dirt! I suppose the alphabet will consist of things we find in the dirt like worms, rocks, grass, ewe... you get the picture. lol!
As I ponder these thoughts I recall my reason for homeschooling... I love them enough to teach them as individuals, with different talents, gifts, and desires and to mold them and shape them into men of integrity. I want their heart to be just as full of God as their brain is full of facts. That will make the difference.
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Naked and Ashamed....
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Crash Landing
This week I sat outside in the cool breeze and soaked up the sunshine while the kids played. I took a much needed break from cooking on two different nights (we had ravioli and cereal :o), I read 3 books, landscaped dBF's front yard, and I started this blog. I think I got a good bit of relaxation time in and I am refreshed. But...
I guess it is back to FlyLady 101 cause this FlyBaby crashed and had a great time doing it.
All in a Day's work... or not!
Saturday, March 24, 2007
My Kids Clothes Are Worth What?
So I just sold a TON of stuff on eBay. My nieces Gymboree, Ralph Lauren, my boys Baby Gap, Osh Kosh, Old Navy and more! I have many people ask how I keep my kids clothes looking good enough to resell them so I thought I would post some tips & such.... I hope you find this useful!
Tips For Getting the Most Out of Your Children's Clothes:
We pay good money for our children's clothes so why shouldn't we be caring for them properly? Here are some tips that I found that really work to keep kid's clothes in excellent shape. After all, we must pass them on to the next ebayer right?!!
Prevention is Key
* Using clear nail polish, dab the center of each button on a new garment to seal in the threads.
* Do not allow the kids to play outside or in other dirty places with their "good" clothes on.
* Always use "play" clothes for messy activities.
* Be sure to use bibs on infants at all times.
* Roll up the sleeves before eating and make sure you carry stain wipes at all times.... just in case!
* General Wash Guidelines
* Always follow the manufacturer's instructions for proper wash care of a garment.
* Remove items from pockets as they tend to cause rips or snags. Paper and excessive lint in pockets can cause severe piling.
* Wash like colors together with one exception. If it is the first time you are washing a dark colored article of clothing then wash it alone, inside out. Run the rinse cycle after removing it to wash out any left over dye.
* Turn colored and dark garments inside out to prevent fading. It is the rubbing against the other clothes that leads to premature fading.
* Look for rips or small tears that can be sewn up prior to washing.
* You should wash lint making items separately from those fabrics that catch lint, including dark colored items.
* Always wash towels separate from clothing.
Stain Removal
* For stains, soak in warm water with Oxy-clean.
* If a garment does fade onto another garment, try using Rit dye remover.
* Wash whites in hot water and bleach.
* For tougher stains, make a paste of Oxy-clean and Era detergent.
* Drying Clothes
* Line drying is always best.
* Do not overload dryer.
Proper Storage
* Store in plastic containers.
* If moths are a problem use cedar chips. However, be sure to place them above the items you are protecting because the fumes travel downwards.
* If your cedar closet is old an no longer smells of cedar, which is what deters the moths, then lightly sand to release the aroma once more.
Everyday Care
* Use a lint remover roller or brush to remove lint and dust.
* Use a clothes shaver to eliminate piling.
* Use wax to keep zippers functioning properly.
* De-wrinkle clothes quickly by using Magic Sizing spray or hand in the bathroom near steam.
Deterring Moisture
* Place pieces of chalk wrapped in tissue paper in the container to soak up excess moisture.
* Place pieces of cardboard throughout the container to capture moisture.
Care for Shoes
* To clean up the look of frayed sho



























