Friday, November 30, 2007

From Diabetes to Design Entrepreneur...

I have always had a desire to encourage women to pursue their dreams while taking care of the family and to find the good things in even the worst of events. God has His hand in everything. It can be done and it is being done. Rickina is just one example. If you know of another lady who has overcome, pursued her dream or is a shining example to others, please let me know. I will consider all nominations to feature these women here at In Pursuit of Proverbs 31.




How can the discovery of an illness bring with it the desire to found and run a successful at-home business and an opportunity to help others with the same disease? Well let’s ask Rickina Velte, the designer, founder and owner of Stick Me Designs.

Rickina was diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes in July '07 while pregnant with her second son. As you can imagine, a whirlwind full of emotions followed; fear, anxiety, denial. While she had an amazing support team that consisted of her husband, family and friends, Rickina also credits a social network called TuDiabetes for helping her to understand and cope with her diagnosis.

It was during the first month or so of carrying around a simple black nylon bag full of the supplies she needed to treat herself that her creativity began to be stirred up. You see, Rickina is a lady of style and character. And besides, that plain, cold, black bag made her feel sick.

“Not only did it not compliment my style, it made me feel like I was sick, and no body who is dealing with a disease or a sickness wants to 'feel' sick” she said in a recent interview.

The lack of appealing options (black or navy blue nylon anyone?) caused Rickina to act on the idea of producing some herself. She browsed through some books on creating handbags and reacquainted herself with the sewing machine, a relationship that is rocky at best, but they were able to get along for just the amount of time it would take for Rickina to create a prototype. She photographed her new creation and uploaded it to the web for opinions and feedback. She said, “The response was fantastic...and the entrepreneurial flicker began.”

Rickina maintains the business’s site, accounting, designing, order fulfillments and customer service. Yes, the whole operation is run from her laptop, at her home, with the exception of the production of the bags. That is done by a contractor. Of course, her favorite part is choosing the fabulous and trendy fabrics. She loves finding fabrics that are hip and retro but she is quick to point out that feel, texture and durability are just as important.

She definitely intends to extend her product line to include more styles that will fit the different lifestyles of people with diabetes. She says, “Because testing your blood sugars is a frequent, daily activity, the bag needs to be able to accommodate that.” She is also considering the suggestions to create a bag for asthmatics and for people who are using an insulin pump.

Rickina is able to maintain her business, her two busy boys and a night job. Her husband is fully supportive of her and her business endeavors. I was excited to learn that they are debt free with the exception of a mortgage and that has allowed them the finances to pursue Rickina’s dream.

Rickina, like many of us, began the college journey only to fall short of the desired diploma. She had difficult pregnancies and chose to care for her body and her baby rather than overworking herself to get a degree. I must say that I totally agree with her way of thinking though. I was all smiles when she told me, “I've learned so much about e-commerce, web design, blogs and stuff just from getting out there in the cyber world. No class could ever teach me what I've learned from just diving in head-first.” This is so very true. Most of what we learn is what we learn for ourselves.

Here are some suggestions from this savvy business lady:

1. Do your research in that industry or that field.


2. Write down everything you can about your thoughts, your ideas, your product your service. I mean literally write them down, and date your ideas. Keep that notebook(s) with you everywhere you go.


3. Find a company(s) that is/are doing what you want to do, if it applies and see how they run their operation. By understanding what successful companies are doing you can apply those principles to what you want to do too. Or you can even find a way to do an aspect of it better, so you'll have an advantage in the market.


4. You have to niche yourself. And what I mean by that is, find a little cubby that no one has discovered yet. Something that can sustain your business to where you want to take it, but is still small enough that that industry has forgotten about them. I think that makes it easier to market to them, it makes you unique and stand out and makes what you're doing more specific.

Rickina and I are in agreement that too many women don’t pursue their dreams and it is a shame because we as women can have such an impact on the world and the people around us and that is something she is experiencing first hand. She is able to help so many others that suffer form this same disease and in some small way she is able to help them ‘feel’ better. Consider it: What gives you a better feeling, black nylon or this:



I was also impressed with her concern for others in the same situation. I asked her what advice she would give to someone who had just been diagnosed with diabetes. She said that she would tell them, “You are not alone! This is not the end of sweets as you know it. Talk about what you're feeling to people who love you. Join a group, a forum, or a message board; join something, so you can talk to others like you. It makes a world of difference.”

“I grew up in church but I'm really just now learning what it means to have a relationship with Him. But what I can say is this; I think people and circumstance have come in and out of my life for a reason. I've always felt that way. Even when the worst of worst situations come around, I still try to see the light at the end of the tunnel that God is pushing me through. My journey to this point has come with, what seemed like then as, disappointments. But I really believe they were preparing me for this time, right now. People I've met, things I’ve gone through, all to prepare me.”

I say, “Absolutely, Rickina… absolutely!”

Please go to Rickina’s website, Stick Me Designs and take a look around. Refer her to a friend who may be able to use one of her products. Visit her blog and encourage her and please keep her, the family and the business in prayer.

Don’t give up on your dreams ladies and look for opportunities in even the darkest of times. You never know what God has in store!


Tuesdays, In "other" Words NEW HOME!!

I am so excited to announce that Tuesdays, In "other" Words has a new home here at In Pursuit of Proverbs 31. Darlene Schacht from CWO has passed the torch for this meme and I am beyond blessed to "take it from here"!

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Friday, November 30th

This week, Christelle is hosting "In 'Other' Words" at her site, Beloved Mama. Christelle has chosen a quote from the book of Mark, chapter 12 . These scriptures always seem to speak to my heart and I can't wait to see what everyone writes for this week's In "other" Words...

This week's quote is:

Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins,worth only a fraction of a penny. Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on."
~ Mark 12:41-44 ~


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Thursday, November 29, 2007

God's Time Management

I had fallen into a trap. It was a trap that was made up of a 3 ring binder, some planner pages and lots of unrealistic expectations. I had become a slave to the feeling of accomplishment that I received when I could check off a completed task. This began to backfire.

Instead of feeling a sense of accomplishment, I began to feel a sense of failure. Why? It is because...

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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Huckabee on Homeschooling

I must admit that I was a bit shocked to hear that if we had lived in Arkansas, I would not have been able to homeschool Gevan. As their law stood from 1985 to 1999, any child with "special needs" would have been mandated to attend a form of public school. Mike Huckabee changed that law, which coincidentally was signed into effect by then Governor Bill Clinton, and Mike has a firm record of standing up for the rights of those who choose to homeschool whether they do it for personal or religious reasons, convenience or any other reason. This is just one of the many reasons why I support him.

Act 1117


Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Lessons Learned the Hard Way


"One reason we are so harried and hurried is that we make yesterday and tomorrow our business, when all that legitimately concerns us is today. If we really have too much to do, there are some items on the agenda which God did not put there. Let us submit the list to Him and ask Him to indicate which items we must delete. There is always time to do the will of God. If we are too busy to do that, we are too busy."


~ Elisabeth Elliott ~


God said to me, "Your son needs you, Amy."
I heard it just as clearly as if He'd said it with an audible voice.

(thinks to self)
"I am. I am. I just need to finish this."

So, off I go to take dinner out of the freezer. On the way to the freezer I notice a spot on the floor and decide to clean it up. I rush over to the sink full of dishes to wet the rag to clean the spot on the floor. It is then that I remember that the clothes I put in the washer earlier must be done and I need to do a load of towels. I wipe up the spot and head to the laundry room. I pass my son along the way. He is supposed to be doing his school work. The reading lesson is self explanatory. He must read and answer 10 questions. What does he need me for right now?

"I'll be there in a minute, Gev", I say as I toss the clothes from one machine to another. "Hey! There is my other shoe!" I run to my closet to put the shoe away with it's counterpart and I notice my bed that is still unmade. Of course, you know what I do next, I make the bed!

This same scenario played out for at least another hour. All the while my little one was sitting at a table, face drooping, watching my every move and waiting. He was waiting for me to come and see what he needed.

"Your son needs you, Amy" He said to me again.

I put down the vacuum cleaner and fought off the desire to go and get the dinner that I had yet to take out of the freezer. I sat down beside my son and with a sigh asked, "What do you need?"

He sensed my increasing irritability and with tears swelling up he said, "Nothing mama, we forgot to pray before school. I didn't want to start yet because I get all messed up when we don't pray. I'm sorry. I knew you were busy so I just waited."

Now, there I was with tears swelling up and feeling God grip my heart. I took a hold of and held the hand of my child so tightly and prayed like we were sitting at the very feet of Jesus. I felt so convicted and I knew that I had just learned an eternal lesson from my sweet and precious child.

"I didn't want to start yet because I get all messed up when we don't pray."

Those are words to live by. Thank you Gevan. Thank you Jesus!


Monday, November 26, 2007

Birthdays and Video Game Addicts...

We have been so busy since last Wednesday... I am glad that things have finally slowed down! We had birthdays, holidays, shopping days, church, you get the picture! Jacob turned 9 on the 17th, Gevan turned 11 on the 19th and we celebrated each birthday at home and had a party for them at Play N Trade on this past Sunday. In between all of that there was Thanksgiving and of course Black Friday shopping! Here are some pics...




Blow out the candles! Make a wish!


This is Gevan and his friend Danny playing the Nintendo DSs.

The Pretty Pink Princess, Gabriela and her new little friend, Alison.
Uncle Darin is rocking out with Guitar Hero.

Dad Ryan is scoring big with Mario vs. Sonic Olympic Games on the Wii.

My sister, Andrea is always such a help. She has the heart of a servant.
Ms. Nicole (Their Dad's girlfriend), Alison's Mom, Uncle Darin, Daddy Mark (the boy's dad), and Uncle Mike. The Pretty Pink Princess is pouting in the middle of the floor!
Yum! The cupcakes must have been good!
So, where do the boy's get their love of video games from? Their dad, of course! Here is Ryan with his birthday gift... an XBox remote!This thing is pretty wild! It lights up when you walk by!